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Poems . Craik, Dinah Maria Mulock, 1826–1887.
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A MAN’S WOOING.

  • YOU said, last night, you did not think
  • In all the world of men
  • Was one true lover—true alike
  • In deed and word and pen;—
  • One knightly lover, constant as
  • The old knights, who sleep sound:
  • Some women, said you, there might be—
  • Not one man faithful found:
  • Not one man, resolute to win,
  • Or, winning, firm to hold
  • The woman, among women—sought
  • With steadfast love and bold.
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  • Not one whose noble life and pure
  • Had power so to control
  • To tender hublest loyalty
  • Her free, but reverent soul,
  • That she beside him gladly moved
  • As sovereign and slave;
  • In faith unfettered, homage true,
  • Each claiming what each gave.
  • And then you dropped your eyelids white,
  • And stood in maiden bloom
  • Proud, calm:—unloving and unloved
  • Descending to the tomb.
  • I let you speak and ne’er replied;
  • I watched you for a space,
  • Until that passionate glow, like youth,
  • Had faded from your face.
  • No anger showed I—nor complaint:
  • My heart’s beats shook no breath,
  • Although I knew that I had found
  • Her, who brings life or death;
  • The woman, true as life or death;
  • The love, strong as these twain,
  • Against which seas of mortal fate
  • Beat harmlessly in vain.
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  • “Not one true man”: I hear it still,
  • Your voice’s clear cold sound,
  • Upholding all your constant swains
  • And good knights underground.
  • “Not one true lover”:—Woman, turn;
  • I love you. Words are small;
  • ’T is life speaks plain: In twenty years
  • Perhaps you may know all.
  • I seek you. You alone I seek:
  • All other women, fair,
  • Or wise, or good, may go their way,
  • Without my thought or care.
  • But you I follow day by day,
  • And night by night I keep
  • My heart’s chaste mansion lighted, where
  • Your image lies asleep.
  • Asleep! If e’er to wake, He knows
  • Who Eve to Adam brought,
  • As you to me: the embodiment
  • Of boyhood’s dear sweet thought,
  • And youth’s fond dream, and manhood’s hope,
  • That still half hopeless shone;
  • Till every rootless vain ideal
  • Commingled into one,—
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  • You; who are so diverse from me,
  • And yet as much my own
  • As this my soul, which, formed apart,
  • Dwells in its bodily throne;—
  • Or rather for that perishes,
  • As these our two lives are
  • So strangely, marvellously drawn
  • Together from afar;
  • Till week by week and month by month
  • We closer seem to grow,
  • As two hill streams, flushed with rich rain,
  • Each into the other flow.
  • I swear no oaths, I tell no lies,
  • Nor boast I never knew
  • A love‐dream—we all dream in youth—
  • But waking, I found you,
  • The real woman, whose first touch
  • Aroused to highest life
  • My real manhood. Crown it then,
  • Good angel, friend, love, wife!
  • Imperfect as I am, and you,
  • Perchance, not all you seem,
  • We two together shall bind up
  • Our past’s bright, broken dream.
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  • We two together shall dare look
  • Upon the years to come,
  • As travellers, met in far countrie,
  • Together look towards home.
  • Come home! The old tales were not false,
  • Yet the new faith is true;
  • Those saintly souls who made men knights
  • Were women such as you.
  • For the great love that teaches love
  • Deceived not, ne’er deceives:
  • And she who most believes in man
  • Makes him what she believes.
  • Come! If you come not, I can wait;
  • My faith, like life, is long;
  • My will—not little; my hope much:
  • The patient are the strong.
  • Yet come, ah come! The years run fast,
  • And hearths grow swiftly cold—
  • Hearts too: but while blood beats in mine
  • It holds you and will hold.
  • And so before you it lies bare,—
  • Take it or let it lie,
  • It is an honest heart; and yours
  • To all eternity.
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